Tuesday, April 29, 2008

The honeymoon

...Sunday 13th continued
According to Nausheen a vital part of brunch is a cocktail so Gemma tried a bloody Mary. It wasn’t really to her taste but the food was lovely and we all had a good time. Nausheen is just as much fun as ever and the three of us had barely been in touch since she visited us in England so the afternoon passed quickly. Greenwich is a funny place – the ‘in crowd’ seem very important to the area and general consensus about whether a bar/shop is trendy or not could make or break a small business. Nausheen pointed out a cup cake shop that is very ‘in’ at the moment – there was a queue around the corner… for cupcakes!
We both drank a few beers and when we got back to the room, quite scandalously, we couldn’t seem to move again all night. For the only night that holiday we had room service and went to bed!

Monday 14th April
Despite going to bed late we got up no earlier than normal, managing to leave the hotel by 10.30. That morning we walked along 5th Ave, north, to ‘Museum Mile’. We had decided to have breakfast out, imagining pancakes stacked and drizzled with syrup (or that’s what Gem imagined). But in our eagerness to get a few blocks behind us we found ourselves adjacent with Central Park and with our tummies rumbling. The neighbourhood along Central Park is filled with the elite New Yorkers and fashionista tourists who, apparently, consider café diners and pancakes beneath them. We ended up breakfasting on coffee and tiny pastries at Nespresso – opposite a Giorgio Armani store!
From there it was a short walk to the Güggenheim. Sadly even here the iconic building was under scaffolding! The main exhibition was by a Chinese man neither of us had heard of. We both liked bits of it, especially some sculpture and the modern art bit that featured the general collection. Mostly the exhibition by Cai Guo-Qiang featured the artists fascination with gunpowder and explosions, that was lost on us slightly…

Afterwards we walked around St Patrick’s cathedral – where the Pope would visit that Friday.
After a very late lunch at 4pm we went back to the room to get ready for the evening we’d both looked forward to probably more than anything: basketball at Madison Square Gardens!
NYC Knicks played the last game of the season against Boston Celtic and despite have seats at the very very back, right at the top, we had a great view. The entertainment aspect is fab, and even though the Knicks lost (91-99) there was no bad atmosphere at all, even walking back home once we were out of the stadium. The Knicks gave out free food and non alcoholic drinks to say thank you to all their fans, (or sorry for having had a poor season depending on how you look at it). There were lots of breaks in play but it was a real laugh. The actor who plays Uncle Junior in the Sopranos got us off to a fun start by singing the national anthem (rather badly actually, but he is in his 70’s so we’ll let him off) and we all had to stand for it, to which we both exchanged glances! Then in each interval there was entertainment. There were the cheerleaders who were amazing; then there was an interview with golfer Trevor Immelman, who had just won the US Masters; and a trampoline act from Quebec, Canada, which was breathtaking; there was also a fantastic audience participation bit when they got 2 guys out of the audience to take part in a dance competition - it had to be seen to be believed! One of the funniest things we saw were the 4 brits on the balcony to our right leading eventually the whole auditorium in a Mexican wave! It was funny because the spectators, apart from that, didn’t really get any atmosphere going at all – not like in football. There was precious little chanting or singing, just DE-FENCE, DE-FENCE, DE-FENCE...! which doesn’t really have the poetry of some of the football chants (although neither was there the industrial language…)



Afterwards we went to the Mean Fiddler bar from 10.30 to about 1am to soak in the atmosphere before returning home to bed.

Tuesday 15th April
Even though we had planned to not visit the art galleries consecutively Gemma somehow convinced us to go to the Met (Metropolitan Museum of Art). In an effort to save our legs and catch up after a late start (we had brunch first) we got a cab up towards the gallery. It is absolutely massive. There is absolutely no way you can see everything. You can’t even see everything in one section without getting lost. We saw modern art and plenty of classics, early photography and post modern photographic art, ancient sculpture, 17th century furniture and modern sculpture like Damien Hurst’s shark in formaldehyde.
We saw Manet, Warhol, Liechtenstein, Van Gogh, Cezanne, Gauguin and Gemma a bit fruitlessly dragged us around trying to find El Greco. The modern bit was particularly good. We walked for about 4 hours until we could physically barely hold ourselves up any longer then we went and sat on the steps outside to eat a hotdog in the sunshine before walking back into Central Park. We were sat on the grass, absentmindedly watching the rich kids playing their nannies up when Alex grabbed his glasses and then the camera. Right in front of us was James Gandolfini (Tony Soprano) playing with his kids and their dog.
That evening we weren’t able to walk too far so we went for a Chinese not far from our hotel then walked our 2 favourite pubs nearby: The Mean Fiddler and Irish Rogue until 1am. Fun!

Wednesday 16th April
We walked to our favourite diner for pancakes with syrup and coffee before walking north to Columbus Circle and the Time Warner Centre. Our plan was to indulge in some frivolous tourist stuff after the culture of the last 2 days. We got souvenirs and en route passed by the Ed Sullivan Theatre on broadway and applied for tickets to see the Late Show the next day. We did a bit of window shopping, followed by actual shopping in Time Warner then walked to Rockerfeller Plaza to see the underground mall but it wasn’t really worth bothering. Afterwards we went to H&M and shopped there, then grabbed a take away lunch which we took home to eat. Our plan for the evening was to see live jazz if possible at a place called Birdland, in Hells Kitchen. We hadn’t booked tickets but when we turned up for the first session we got seats and we liked it so much we stayed for a second session and eat there. Alex treated us and it was absolutely brilliant. The music (the night was Bossa Brazil themed around Brazilian music), was provided by a Brazilian Bossa Nova band. The trio band was led by Grammy Award winning master Pianist/Composer/ Producer, Cesar Camargo Mariano and the amazing singer was vocalist/guitarist/composer, Joao Bosco. We liked the band until the singer came on, then we loved them! We ate southern style food and soaked up the atmosphere, then returned home feeling very spoiled and very sad that the next day was our last.

Thursday 17th April
Our last proper day! We walked leisurely along Broadway, looking at souvenirs, gift shopping and we eat at the pizzeria next to the Ed Sullivan theatre. Then we picked up our tickets to see the show. There seemed to be a lot of waiting around, and we were a bit nervous because we didn’t know whether it was a bit of a waste of our precious last day, but it was fab! The build up was expertly done, by the time David Letterman came on stage we were all revved up and ready for a good time. The show was great, the live music provided by the house band was brilliant, guests were ok (Kelly Lee Ripa and environmentalist, John Ordendorff), then the Black Keys played and they were pretty good. All in all we left feeling pretty good and excited.
To see an excerpt: www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYLZcnoyl8w

For the last night we had a bit of a wild one. We started at The Mean Fiddler before getting a cab to Greenwich Village where we met Nausheen for sushi at a bar called Bond St. Nausheen chose because we didn’t know what to pick. Nausheen introduced Gemma to lychee cocktails and we chatted until her friends arrived. The friends were stock brokers on Wall St and were heading over to an exclusive club later that night so we went along for the ride. Nausheen had work the next day but bless her, always the party queen, she stayed out with us until something like 2am. The Box is so exclusive your name has to be on the list, no matter how much money you offer them. It’s a burlesque club, quite risqué, but very artfully done. The stock brokers had their own table and bottles of vodka and champagne there to drink freely and there were some friendly people and some snobs as you’d expect. Being there, the two of us, was weird and amazing! It was purely thanks to Nausheen that we experienced such a different world. Everyone there obviously saw a very different world to us normally. (Gemma: I felt more at ease with the toilet attendant who was very friendly that I did with most of the stock brokers! There was one from London, he was polite to a point but I don’t think he was interesting in sharing thoughts or experiences just in measuring us up.) We danced and giggled, Gemma and Nausheen danced, and suddenly it was 4am and we dragged ourselves away from quite possibly one of our most fun nights ever.

Friday 18th April
The journey home started badly when we awoke feeling exceptionally stiff, tired, queasy and generally delicate! However by a small miracle we managed to pack all of our goodies into the little rucksacks we’d arrived with, sip a small bit of coffee and drag ourselves up to Central Park for a dose in the sun. The children were all out playing baseball, the mums pushed their prams, the sun shone… After a few hours we eat one last hotdog and wandered back to pick up our bags. In one last indulgence we had ordered a car and travelled in limousine style to the airport feeling a good 70% more human than we had when we awoke!

Back down to earth...

Today I was able to finally stay at home and recover from my first week back at work. It's been a long week, 8 days, after the best ever holiday in NY, and I'm still shattered. But hey, this weekend is a bank holiday, or long weekend, so whoopee!
Among all the many chores of the day I went around the house taking down our wedding cards and took awhile to read them and enjoy them. We had so many cards, presents and gifts of money that it made us both quite abashed and we felt very cherished. Going back through the cards was lovely, I just can't believe that next week we'll have been married a month!
I would have left the cards up longer but there were so many they were taking over the house and with them up I hadn't even managed to put up my birthday cards! So now my first ever "Wife" card is up and I'm happy! Btw, Alex always picks very beautiful birthday and Christmas cards, he's got quite a talent for it so I'm very lucky...
Next post will cover the honeymoon and then I promise to stop banging on about the wedding! x

Saturday, April 26, 2008

The wedding!

Oh wow, what a day. It passed as quickly as everyone said it would. I wouldn't say I breezed through it in a haze of bliss because it's such a weird, busy, surprising, emotional day, but I definately enjoyed it and so did Alex. He looked incredibly dapper, dressed in a dark brown, modern suit and I loved loved loved my dress. I went to the hairdresser and asked for wedding hair that "wasn't too bridal" so the hairdresser laughed at me! I wanted a 60's style, beehive but not amy winehouse, and got one! On the morning it went up even higher than in the practice which was a bit scary, and it took a few goes, but with the dress I think it looked incredible. When we got back home, Linda had been waiting for the flower delivery while we were having our hair done, and that's when the hecticness really kicked in, along with my nerves. Once I was in my dress I couldn't move anyway so I actually didn't get as much done as I needed. I ended up forgetting totally the beautiful pearl necklace that Laura brought from madrid and the matching earings, both were our grandmothers and I still feel sick to think about it. Despite all this though the flowers were beautiful, and my parents arrived and both looked very happy and smart, as did auntie Pru who came with them. Emma's tantrum seemed to die down while she watched the Simpsons on dvd and Ruth the photographer made it all seem under control by snapping away quietly and getting me dad and danielle to pose. The cat did not know what to make of it all! Here are a few shots:

So anyway; we saw people off (Mum, Pru, Ruth and Linda) and tried to stop the cat escaping, sorted out Emma and put on the last of our make up, finished our bucks fizz and the driver arrived in the large Daimler which we were all going to drive off in. We got out of the car and the next door neighbour was just taking their puppy for a walk. He wasn't on a lead. I waved and smiled and said "I'm going to get married" then the beaming smile faded as the doggie bounded over to investigate. We did the useless girlie thing and fretted while the puppy had the time of his life jumping on us before (after several shrill requests for help) our neighbour Paige gethered herself and her dog. I don't blame her though, its not every day you see a girl in a big white frock... We piled into the car and drove slowly to church. I thought we were late because of a last minute panic (when me and dad were in the car the girls had real trouble locking the front door and it all got a little stressful) but actually we were ok.


That last picture is us just waiting to walk down the aisle. The vicar was at the front, everyone was seated and he was saying something to the congregatio. The verger led us up the path to that point and that's when I noticed it. "Why is it so quiet?" I asked her "Oh yes, erm, well the organist doesn't seem to have turned up" queue reaction:

the ceremony and lunch

Getting down the aisle was a funny mix of feelings, but spoilt at the time a bit by the whole organist thing. Afterwards people said that the cd they played made it extra special. I always knew I'd love seeing all the family members and friends in the church and that really was truly special. I also knew I'd be fine once I got down to the front and stood with Alex. He didn't look back at me until I was half way down and by then I was feeling ok. He looked really happy, and very calm which helped me to calm my jitters and get on with enjoying it all. Laura came from spain and did the reading really well, she didn't look nervous at all. Pauline had done a brill job with the orders of service and it meant a lot that Jess had written the prayers, that Rob lead the prayers and Danielle and Laura Nathan and Emma were there at the front. Mum looked really happy and soppy at the same time so the position of mother of the bride was well and truly filled!

We signed the register and saw everyone out at the doorway, then we stood by the lychgate while people thre confetti. I think the church service was my absolute favourite part of the whole day. We sang Amazing Grace, my favourite hymn, without the assistance of the organist (who turned up a few minutes later) with Rob leading us, and it was fab! It was better than the songs we sang when the organist actually turned up.
The journey to the reception was fun to. Our lovely driver chatted away while she drove us but unfortunately she misread the satnav twice and so twice had to find a place to turn the big old Daimler around. Meanwhile family members trailing us in their cars had to find places to turn around. I'm just glad the coach didn't follow us!
Anyway... miraculously we all got to the Queens Head Inn, in fact our car still managed to beat the coach which was pulling in as we were allready getting out of the car. The sun had burned away the clouds and it was suddenly beautiful! We then tried to get the photos done as quickly and as painlessley as possible (I'll add these on once I've got them) and then it was time to mill around and get fed!
The Queen's Head Inn did us proud; the food was gorgeous. People with particular diets were all well looked after, everyone was comfortable, and the food was delish! And then the speeches, eek!

I think I was more nervous about speeches than I was about my exam results, taking my driving test for the third time or even getting married... The boys did well though. Dan and Nathan both carried off their speeches with aplomb and Alex made my heart melt. And then...
We could BREATHE!
It was the bit that was all about having fun! Yey! Me and Alex tried to get around as many people as possible but it's just not possible to see everyone... The evening guests arrived (we'd invited everyone to the church and we would have fed them all too but there wasn't room. In the end I'd guess there was about 200) and the music came on... Viva la fiesta!

At about 10pm wonderful wonderful Gianni, the manager, came to me and my bridesmaids with fluffy slippers, otherwise I really don't know... Finally at 1am we all piled on the coach and went home...
Only it wasn't finally actually. The coach dropped half of us off at the Green in Kings Norton where there were supposed to be taxis waiting but none were. As the beginnings of a snow blizzard fell we waited and it was the wirdest thing to be stood there in a big white wedding dress waiting for a cab in the snow! Alex called the taxi firm and more were sent over so we only waited 10 minutes but it was a very weird end to a day that's so full of memories that I don't think I can ever forget it.
Next week: the honeymoon!