Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Happy Birthday nan

Alex's nan Doris Adams turned 95 not so very long ago and upon turning 95 was treated to a fun surprise party, organised by daughter Fran (my new mother in law) and daughter in law Carol.

You should have seen Dos' face as it dawned on her that it wasn't a coincidence that more and more family and friends were walking into Kings Heath Cricket Club!
Dos and her great grandson Rueben, just turned one - 94 years apart!

Thursday, May 22, 2008

New York Story - part 1

Tuesday 8th April
After setting off from Birmingham International and a 7 hour flight we arrived, excited to see everything New York had to offer. We got to Times Square and Hotel 41 at 1pm, American time and dropped our bags off at the hotel. We had until 3pm before we could check in so we decided to go for a walk.
We walked to Bryant Park, around Macy’s department store (huge) and around Times Square then got back in time for 3pm when we could check in shower and drop our bags off.
We found a bar that was recommended nearby in Hells Kitchen, ‘The Irish Rogue’ to watch football and have a beer, and then, done in, we had dinner downstairs in the hotel bar and went to bed. By this time we were like zombies and it was only 9pm in New York.
Our room was very compact, just large enough for a double bed and a desk, a cupboard and an on suite. We’d been given an upgrade though and the staff were all very nice, and even though the room got no natural light as we faced into the back of another building it was also mercifully quiet. So it worked out to be a genuine rest from the hubbub outside.

Wednesday 9th April
We slept well but going to bed early meant we woke at 5.30 am! Each morning for the first half of the holiday we had breakfast downstairs. Gemma got addicted to coffee and bagels…
Because we’d travelled with virtually nothing (we’d carried a small rucksack so as to avoid waiting for luggage at either end) the first thing we did was get provisions from Duane Read. There’s a Duane Read on virtually every block in central Manhattan and it sells all kinds of groceries, pharmacy goods, treats, electronic stuff; basically everything. We then walked to a shop further in Hell’s Kitchen called B&H, a fantastic discount store that sells everything, and we mean everything, electrical. We bought our new camera there.

And then we were ready to start sightseeing. We walked to Madison Square Gardens and bought Knicks tickets for the Wednesday night, vrs Boston Celtic, and we were very excited about the promise of seeing live basketball. Then we found a place on the corner of Seventh Ave called Andrew’s Coffee Bar. There’s waitress service and they do all the classics; pancakes, waffles, nachos, pizza, omelettes and very good, good coffee mmmmm… So that was lunch sorted.
Afterwards we walked back north many, many blocks to Central Park and around the bottom third of it, meandering inwards, taking a breather on the odd bench, and enjoying the view of green grass in the middle of the urban jungle. There are strange rocky outcrops, massive boulders and almost cliff faces in the middle of flat green grass.
And then the skycrapers… As we walked in any given direction Alex would say hold on a minute and he’s take a photo, we’d walk a few more steps and he’d take another photo. But it was amazing so really why not?!
When we hit pavement again we walked back along Fifth Ave looking at the boutiques. (Gemma: think Gossip Girl/Sex and the City). On our way back towards the hotel we stopped off at H&M and bought a few clothes each, everything was half price because of the dollar which was fab!
By the time we got home it was 5.30 but we just had to get some rest before going for a meal – after a couple of hours sleep we dragged ourselves out for dinner but by that time we were so exhausted that we couldn’t think. Here we were on the first proper night of our honeymoon in the city that never sleeps and we felt awful! We walked aimlessly until we found a restaurant, Jacks, that was truthfully lovely but I’m afraid we were too half soaked to really appreciate it. By 10pm we were in bed, so very grateful to be asleep!

Thursday 10th April
We woke up at 8.30 and, hallelujah, it seemed like our body clocks were back on track. Alex continued to have a sniffle for the whole holiday but otherwise we were raring to go! After breakfast we took the walk west towards the docks along 41st street. The sun was really bright that day, the sky way above the tallest skyscraper was bright blue and it was a beautiful day. We arrived at the docks; there was a smell of sea breeze and in front of us was the Circle Line ferry. It is called an ocean cruise because technically speaking the trip around Manhattan Island does not leave salt water, but that is more an example of the American’s delight for over-selling things. Come on, it’s a ferry! For example; everywhere you see: The world’s best pie, The world’s best coffee, The world’s largest…, The world’s tallest…
Anyway, David Parker, the guide, was fantastic! He was knowledgeable, entertaining and the three hour trip flew by in a blurr of sights, beer and a hot dog! It was 75°f and Alex got a tad burned on the boat.
Following the ‘cruise’ we walked back to the hotel; determined to take the day at a more relaxed pace we had a late lunch at Ruby’s at Times Square, just opposite the hotel, and took a 30 minute stroll before returning to the hotel to phone the folks.
Rested up, we were ready for a night on the town so we hit the Hard Rock Café. And it hit back with a gargantuan bill for the cocktail I drank. However Gemma pointed out that this came with a brand new, free, enormous, commemorative glass, so the newlyweds were happy again! Afterwards we walked into Hells Kitchen through the theatre district and drank at Rudy’s bar on 9th ave. When you ask a local person where is good to go out a New Yorker will tell you to go to Greenwich or the West Village. But whilst it is all very über cool there we really like old Hells Kitchen; old New York might not be full of sushi bars but it does have pizzerias, jazz clubs, and Rudy’s, a bar where everyone can have as many free hot dogs as they like to soak up their beers and the drinkers are friendly people like Brian who gave us a verbal tour of NYC over a couple of drinks. So we in the end decided to spend most nights discovering the local scene. Afterwards we crossed the road to the completely suave Nizzi’s bar/restaurant for delicious deep fried ravioli and calamari with potato salad at 1am. Gemma had a strawberry champagne cocktail that was to die for and would probably cross the ocean once more to simply find out the restaurant!

Friday 11th April
At 10am we went on a mission to find the financial district on foot and spent the whole morning walking approx 5km south via Soho (short of South of Houston, thank you David Parker), Tribeca and Greenwich Village. We saw the law courts, Wall St and felt a bit of the buzz of the financial district, before heading off to Century 21 a department store. Afterwards we had a look a the building site that the rest of the world knows as ‘ground zero’ where a New Yorker eating lunch on a bench told us his very own 9/11 story, and we told him how the rest of the world had been thinking of them.

With our legs starting to fail us we hailed a yellow cab and raced back to the Times Square area we were starting to call home t have a look at a few of the shops, including the BIGGEST ToysRUs store ever! Then at 5pm we walked back to the hotel and finished off a day’s indulgence with a Mexican evening meal at ‘Viva Pancho’. We even had the energy for a couple of drinks at our little bar downstairs: which throughout our holiday combined being extremely busy and popular in the evening without intruding on our peaceful nights: miraculous!

Saturday 12th April
‘First thing’ after breakfast we walked to Bryant Park we wandered over the copier shop – it’s a chain with a really funny name Xerox Kinko’s, and they’re everywhere in upper Manhattan. Inside is a large, automated internet café, where you scan your credit card and the dollars are deducted automatically per minute. We wanted to find out if Gemma’s friend Nausheen, who lives in New York, was around and willing to be pestered. So Gem found her on FaceBook and sent her a message and we got on with our day.
We walked around in a bit of a circle until we found the Empire State Building. For both of us it was really important that we see this iconic part of NYC’s heritage, it was almost as though we hadn’t seen New York at all until we did this one thing. So it was a bit of a shame to realise we’d not noticed it at all when we walked past it to find Macy’s on our first day – the reason being because its frontage was covered in scaffolding.

The whole of its block’s width was covered with scaffold with a low ceiling so we couldn’t stand on the sidewalk and just look up. Inside the work continued, meaning we missed out on its Art Deco style, but its crowning glory, the view, was of course very much still up for grabs.
We took loads of pictures from the top and walked all around, it was amazing!
After a brief wander through the gift shop we headed down to the street and headed to a pizza parlour for lunch. It was a very basic New York pizzeria but still each pizza slice was cut off a freshly made pizza, they were spinning the dough in front of us. Gordon Ramsey would be happy!
Feeling full and happy we walked around Madison Avenue to see the Rockerfeller Centre.
Since we were in the area we paid for a tour of Radio City Music Hall. It was in the Rough Guide as a ‘must see’ but to be honest it was slightly lost on us as neither of us had seen many old films with the Rockettes, but nevertheless during the tour we got a photo taken stood either side of a Rockette!
That evening, after a rest in the hotel room, we went to a couple of Irish bars. The first one we had dinner in and then we went looking for live music. We found some when we chanced upon the most beautiful, amazing jazz group and we enjoyed ourselves immensely.

Sunday 13th April
Nausheen had called us in the hotel room and left an excited text message so we made arrangements to meet for brunch; brunch is an institution in New York apparently. We went out to change our travellers cheques then began the walk south. It was another long walk but we took it slowly, just looking around. We soaked up the atmosphere in the Greenwich markets then walked through Greenwich village, seeing the neat fronts of the little houses; the cute, old fashioned, tidy, feeling of the Village, before meeting Nausheen and her tiny dog Naj in front of her house. We wandered over to the Spotted Pig where we had lunch and caught up. It was lovely!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

The honeymoon

...Sunday 13th continued
According to Nausheen a vital part of brunch is a cocktail so Gemma tried a bloody Mary. It wasn’t really to her taste but the food was lovely and we all had a good time. Nausheen is just as much fun as ever and the three of us had barely been in touch since she visited us in England so the afternoon passed quickly. Greenwich is a funny place – the ‘in crowd’ seem very important to the area and general consensus about whether a bar/shop is trendy or not could make or break a small business. Nausheen pointed out a cup cake shop that is very ‘in’ at the moment – there was a queue around the corner… for cupcakes!
We both drank a few beers and when we got back to the room, quite scandalously, we couldn’t seem to move again all night. For the only night that holiday we had room service and went to bed!

Monday 14th April
Despite going to bed late we got up no earlier than normal, managing to leave the hotel by 10.30. That morning we walked along 5th Ave, north, to ‘Museum Mile’. We had decided to have breakfast out, imagining pancakes stacked and drizzled with syrup (or that’s what Gem imagined). But in our eagerness to get a few blocks behind us we found ourselves adjacent with Central Park and with our tummies rumbling. The neighbourhood along Central Park is filled with the elite New Yorkers and fashionista tourists who, apparently, consider café diners and pancakes beneath them. We ended up breakfasting on coffee and tiny pastries at Nespresso – opposite a Giorgio Armani store!
From there it was a short walk to the Güggenheim. Sadly even here the iconic building was under scaffolding! The main exhibition was by a Chinese man neither of us had heard of. We both liked bits of it, especially some sculpture and the modern art bit that featured the general collection. Mostly the exhibition by Cai Guo-Qiang featured the artists fascination with gunpowder and explosions, that was lost on us slightly…

Afterwards we walked around St Patrick’s cathedral – where the Pope would visit that Friday.
After a very late lunch at 4pm we went back to the room to get ready for the evening we’d both looked forward to probably more than anything: basketball at Madison Square Gardens!
NYC Knicks played the last game of the season against Boston Celtic and despite have seats at the very very back, right at the top, we had a great view. The entertainment aspect is fab, and even though the Knicks lost (91-99) there was no bad atmosphere at all, even walking back home once we were out of the stadium. The Knicks gave out free food and non alcoholic drinks to say thank you to all their fans, (or sorry for having had a poor season depending on how you look at it). There were lots of breaks in play but it was a real laugh. The actor who plays Uncle Junior in the Sopranos got us off to a fun start by singing the national anthem (rather badly actually, but he is in his 70’s so we’ll let him off) and we all had to stand for it, to which we both exchanged glances! Then in each interval there was entertainment. There were the cheerleaders who were amazing; then there was an interview with golfer Trevor Immelman, who had just won the US Masters; and a trampoline act from Quebec, Canada, which was breathtaking; there was also a fantastic audience participation bit when they got 2 guys out of the audience to take part in a dance competition - it had to be seen to be believed! One of the funniest things we saw were the 4 brits on the balcony to our right leading eventually the whole auditorium in a Mexican wave! It was funny because the spectators, apart from that, didn’t really get any atmosphere going at all – not like in football. There was precious little chanting or singing, just DE-FENCE, DE-FENCE, DE-FENCE...! which doesn’t really have the poetry of some of the football chants (although neither was there the industrial language…)



Afterwards we went to the Mean Fiddler bar from 10.30 to about 1am to soak in the atmosphere before returning home to bed.

Tuesday 15th April
Even though we had planned to not visit the art galleries consecutively Gemma somehow convinced us to go to the Met (Metropolitan Museum of Art). In an effort to save our legs and catch up after a late start (we had brunch first) we got a cab up towards the gallery. It is absolutely massive. There is absolutely no way you can see everything. You can’t even see everything in one section without getting lost. We saw modern art and plenty of classics, early photography and post modern photographic art, ancient sculpture, 17th century furniture and modern sculpture like Damien Hurst’s shark in formaldehyde.
We saw Manet, Warhol, Liechtenstein, Van Gogh, Cezanne, Gauguin and Gemma a bit fruitlessly dragged us around trying to find El Greco. The modern bit was particularly good. We walked for about 4 hours until we could physically barely hold ourselves up any longer then we went and sat on the steps outside to eat a hotdog in the sunshine before walking back into Central Park. We were sat on the grass, absentmindedly watching the rich kids playing their nannies up when Alex grabbed his glasses and then the camera. Right in front of us was James Gandolfini (Tony Soprano) playing with his kids and their dog.
That evening we weren’t able to walk too far so we went for a Chinese not far from our hotel then walked our 2 favourite pubs nearby: The Mean Fiddler and Irish Rogue until 1am. Fun!

Wednesday 16th April
We walked to our favourite diner for pancakes with syrup and coffee before walking north to Columbus Circle and the Time Warner Centre. Our plan was to indulge in some frivolous tourist stuff after the culture of the last 2 days. We got souvenirs and en route passed by the Ed Sullivan Theatre on broadway and applied for tickets to see the Late Show the next day. We did a bit of window shopping, followed by actual shopping in Time Warner then walked to Rockerfeller Plaza to see the underground mall but it wasn’t really worth bothering. Afterwards we went to H&M and shopped there, then grabbed a take away lunch which we took home to eat. Our plan for the evening was to see live jazz if possible at a place called Birdland, in Hells Kitchen. We hadn’t booked tickets but when we turned up for the first session we got seats and we liked it so much we stayed for a second session and eat there. Alex treated us and it was absolutely brilliant. The music (the night was Bossa Brazil themed around Brazilian music), was provided by a Brazilian Bossa Nova band. The trio band was led by Grammy Award winning master Pianist/Composer/ Producer, Cesar Camargo Mariano and the amazing singer was vocalist/guitarist/composer, Joao Bosco. We liked the band until the singer came on, then we loved them! We ate southern style food and soaked up the atmosphere, then returned home feeling very spoiled and very sad that the next day was our last.

Thursday 17th April
Our last proper day! We walked leisurely along Broadway, looking at souvenirs, gift shopping and we eat at the pizzeria next to the Ed Sullivan theatre. Then we picked up our tickets to see the show. There seemed to be a lot of waiting around, and we were a bit nervous because we didn’t know whether it was a bit of a waste of our precious last day, but it was fab! The build up was expertly done, by the time David Letterman came on stage we were all revved up and ready for a good time. The show was great, the live music provided by the house band was brilliant, guests were ok (Kelly Lee Ripa and environmentalist, John Ordendorff), then the Black Keys played and they were pretty good. All in all we left feeling pretty good and excited.
To see an excerpt: www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYLZcnoyl8w

For the last night we had a bit of a wild one. We started at The Mean Fiddler before getting a cab to Greenwich Village where we met Nausheen for sushi at a bar called Bond St. Nausheen chose because we didn’t know what to pick. Nausheen introduced Gemma to lychee cocktails and we chatted until her friends arrived. The friends were stock brokers on Wall St and were heading over to an exclusive club later that night so we went along for the ride. Nausheen had work the next day but bless her, always the party queen, she stayed out with us until something like 2am. The Box is so exclusive your name has to be on the list, no matter how much money you offer them. It’s a burlesque club, quite risqué, but very artfully done. The stock brokers had their own table and bottles of vodka and champagne there to drink freely and there were some friendly people and some snobs as you’d expect. Being there, the two of us, was weird and amazing! It was purely thanks to Nausheen that we experienced such a different world. Everyone there obviously saw a very different world to us normally. (Gemma: I felt more at ease with the toilet attendant who was very friendly that I did with most of the stock brokers! There was one from London, he was polite to a point but I don’t think he was interesting in sharing thoughts or experiences just in measuring us up.) We danced and giggled, Gemma and Nausheen danced, and suddenly it was 4am and we dragged ourselves away from quite possibly one of our most fun nights ever.

Friday 18th April
The journey home started badly when we awoke feeling exceptionally stiff, tired, queasy and generally delicate! However by a small miracle we managed to pack all of our goodies into the little rucksacks we’d arrived with, sip a small bit of coffee and drag ourselves up to Central Park for a dose in the sun. The children were all out playing baseball, the mums pushed their prams, the sun shone… After a few hours we eat one last hotdog and wandered back to pick up our bags. In one last indulgence we had ordered a car and travelled in limousine style to the airport feeling a good 70% more human than we had when we awoke!

Back down to earth...

Today I was able to finally stay at home and recover from my first week back at work. It's been a long week, 8 days, after the best ever holiday in NY, and I'm still shattered. But hey, this weekend is a bank holiday, or long weekend, so whoopee!
Among all the many chores of the day I went around the house taking down our wedding cards and took awhile to read them and enjoy them. We had so many cards, presents and gifts of money that it made us both quite abashed and we felt very cherished. Going back through the cards was lovely, I just can't believe that next week we'll have been married a month!
I would have left the cards up longer but there were so many they were taking over the house and with them up I hadn't even managed to put up my birthday cards! So now my first ever "Wife" card is up and I'm happy! Btw, Alex always picks very beautiful birthday and Christmas cards, he's got quite a talent for it so I'm very lucky...
Next post will cover the honeymoon and then I promise to stop banging on about the wedding! x